Bondage gear for bedroom bondage

 

So, you fancy trying something new; you have a partner who is in to the same things as you, or maybe you are just curious to know what to buy a friend who is into BDSM. (That’s bondage and sadomasochism.) Where do you start? What do you need to get yourself set up with some fetish equipment so that you can start to enjoy the bondage scene in the privacy of your own bedroom? Let’s take a look around and see what products and sites are out there to help us in our quest.

You might be surprised at how many places there are out there that specialize in this kind of equipment. Try an internet search and you will see what I mean, or else just look at these sample sites that I found.

mistress slave girl for bondageThere were 16 products in this category over at Cybernookie. The list started off with your standard metal handcuffs – always good for clamping someone to the bed, and finished off with a leopard skin mask, wrist and ankle cuffs. But the list doesn’t really stop here – there was even a blow up chair that you could strap your loved one into, a feather tickler and ‘fantasy bondage tape’.

Over at ssaxtoys.com they had over 20 categories of toys and even furniture. This site isn’t as well designed, in that it looks home-made, as the previous one but it’s just as well stocked. Here there were many categories of things to buy including jewellery, cock and ball toys, spanking equipment and hoods – all of which can be used in your bedroom. In fact, just looking at these two sites it became apparent that your fantasies are only limited by your imagination. And maybe by the size of your bedroom. You may not have room for a full Dungeon Cross (or the budget at $599.99) but you might be able to start small with some leather, locking neck to wrist restraints at $139.95.

That may sound like starting at the top and if you’re a beginner you may not want to spend a lot of money getting set up in case you then discover that this scene is not for you. In that case try looking at sextoys411.com/bondage_toys.htm. This page and the site around it will help you get started. It will take you through the list of questions and subject areas, explain to you the different kinds of toys and equipment on offer and will even explain some of the fears people have over getting involved in bondage. You can then link to the shop department where you will find all the gear you need with photo examples of how the thing is worn or used. There is also a library and theatre where you can buy books or DVDs that will guide you through getting started, or simply turn you on – either is fine.

You will notice that the sites listed here appear straight – actually they are mixed. These pieces of equipment will do well for both guys and gals – except for the gender specific ones like cock rings of course – so don’t be put off by the straight element if you’re a gay guy. Even adding ‘Gay’ to the web search produced the same top listed sites.

As I said it’s your imagination which is the key player in your bedroom bondage set up. Discuss with your partner what they would like and what you would like, try it out and remember that it’s about having fun as much as it is about having sex. It should be safe, non threatening role play and that’s the key to it all. Once you are clear about that you will find that the sky is the limit as far as your bondage in bed sessions go.

 

 

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